Celebrities turning 50 this year

As I continue to try to  convince myself that turning 50 is not that big a deal, I found an article listing celebrities that are hitting the big five - oh this year. I just selected a few of them...

Tom Cruise

Demi Moore

Joan Cusack

Jodie Foster

Kelly Preston

Wesley Snipes

Paula Abdul

Emilio Estevez

Matthew Broderick

Rosie O'Donnell

John Bon Jovi

Garth Brooks

1962 was a pretty good year. I wouldn't want their fame or notoriety, but I wouldn't mind a little of the cash...

Good things about turning 50 - Part 1

Here is my first installment of the good things about getting older - - - -

I care much less about what other people think than I used to.

I don't have to ask permission.

No more PTA meetings.

I don't get carded anymore.

I feel much less guilty about doing things I want to do.

I have time to enjoy art.

I read because I want to not because I have to.

I can put my pajamas on when I get home from work and I don't care what anyone thinks about it!

I have finally figured out how to relax.

Other people I know, love and respect are 50 or older and they are JUST FINE!

Stay tuned - there's more to come....

You are only as old as you feel...

When I was 7 or so, I remember thinking that when I was 12, I would really be grown up. When I was 12, I thought 20 was old. When I hit 20 I started to think that 30 was "middle age." At 32, I began working with older adults and all my preconceptions of aging and what is old were blown out of the water.

In 1994 I became the program assistant at an adult day program. The ADC was a day program where caregivers could bring their loved ones for a few hours every day for activities, exercise, socialization and a hot meal. What was amazing about this program was that it had a small paid staff, but a huge volunteer corps made up mainly of retired, older adults. These volunteers drove the program vans to pick up and take home participants, worked in the administrative office and helped facilitate all the activities of the day. Some of these volunteers were in their 80's! They did their volunteer work with energy, compassion, energy, dedication, enrgy and love. And did I mention energy?

Here it is 18 years later and I am still working with older adults. I know people in their 60's, 70's, 80's, 90's and even someone who has passed the 100 year mark. Many of them face serious health challenges, but they continue to have young spirits. I am often inspired by their stories, their determination and their energy. Working with these people has also finally made me realize that I should really be taking better care of myself NOW. I AM trying.

Facing 50 has really made me reflect on age and what I have accomplished and how much more I want to do. The are so many good things about getting older. In fact, in honor of my upcoming birthday I am going to list 50 good things about getting older.

Before I start my list, I want to share a funny story from when my girls were in grade school. My oldest daughter, jb, was quite precocious at times. She was about 10 years old and knew everything, of course. Somehow, age entered the conversation. She said to me, "Mom, you and Dad are old, Nana is ANCIENT, but Grandma and Grandpa Beeson are PREHISTORIC!"

Sweet 16

It has been a very exciting day! I must confess that I have been watching the games in my room away  from Ron and the big TV in the family room. Why? Because my husband becomes a stark raving lunatic when he watches basketball and that is only amplified when he watches IU play. He screams and yells and jumps up and down. You can take the boy out of Indiana, but you can't take the Hoosier out of the boy!

So, the good news is that IU won their game against VCU and made it to the Sweet 16. The bad news is that they have to play Kentucky in the next game. I don't know whether Ron loves IU more than he hates Kentucky - it's a real toss-up. IU beat Kentucky back in December by 1 point and it was a very happy day here at the Beeson Homestead.

For now, Ron will savor today's victory and count the hours until the next big game on Thursday. Maybe I will  find my earplugs so that I can watch the game in the same room with him. I will let you know how it goes.

Bracketology

It is a holy day in the Beeson household for today is Selection Sunday. To many people, March is about the beginning of spring, St. Patrick's Day and Daylight Savings time. In my house, March is all about basketball.

The NCAA selection committee is hard at work at this very moment deciding who will get to go to the Big Dance. You may wonder why I choose to comment on the NCAA Men's Basketball Tournament at all. I guess if I hadn't lived in Indiana for 11 years or married a Hoosier, this day might have gone by without much notice from me. I have never been any kind of athlete and still don't completely understand all the rules of college basketball, but it's impossible NOT to get caught up in the excitement of this time of year. I blame my husband for pulling me into the insanity.

Basketball is a religion in Indiana and Ron remains a faithful follower even though we moved to Texas in 1984. He grew up in Connersville where the boys' basketball team won the state championships in 1972 and 1983. We were actually at the 1983 state championship game at Market Square Arena and exhausted ourselves jumping up and down and screaming ourselves hoarse watching that final game. I'm sure that he could tell you the names of the players and give you a summary of the key plays. I just got caught up in the emotion and excitement of the whole thing.

There are few things that evoke more excitement or emotional outbursts from my husband than watching college basketball games. I have spent the last 32 years of my life watching him get red in the face while yelling at the TV during games. There are also a few things that remain constant. He is generally supportive of Indiana teams (he was thrilled by Butler's performance the last couple years) and he always roots for Indiana University. Coach Bobby Knight is still revered in our house no matter how flawed he may be as a human being. Another constant is the disdain Ron has for the Kentucky and Duke teams. His grudge against those teams goes back many many years. I am a Hoosier by marriage so I don't completely understand it, it just IS.

Need any help filling out your brackets today? I'm sure that Ron will be happy to give you his opinion. In fact, Mandi may be willing to share her picks with you as well. She is the only one of our children that has the "disease." I'm not sure how the other two escaped it - it's quite contagious. I will let you know how we all fare with our picks as we wind through to the Sweet Sixteen, the Elite Eight, the Final Four and finally, to the National Championship on April 2nd.

 Can you feel the excitement?!?!

lost weekend

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I had every intention of making this a "working" weekend. I was going to clean out and organize the  computer/craft room, clean out my closet, do laundry and some other household chores. Where did I go wrong? I blame it on Roku, Netflix, Downton Abbey, facebook, Words with Friends and this blog.

The kids got us the Roku player as a Christmas gift year before last. It's a fabulous little box that hooks up to the TV and Wi-Fi then enables you to stream and watch movies and shows on tv  through Netflix, Hulu Plus and Amazon. It's a wonderful thing. My big accomplishment for the weekend so far is that we have watched 3 movies, American Splendor, Mother and Child and Thirteen. Most importantly, I have finally found out why everyone raves about Downton Abbey. I have watched the complete 1st season (7 episodes) and am now about to start my 3rd episode of season 2. WONDERFUL show - I guess that's why it's a Masterpiece Classic on PBS. I so highly recommend this series if you like British period dramas. I can't believe it took me so long to get around to watching it. Maggie Smith is still "all that and a bag of chips!"

Otherwise, the only productive housework I've gotten done this weekend is 3 loads of laundry. The weekend went by and the computer room and my closet are in exactly the same condition they were in last week. Trying not to feel guilty about it because I do feel rather rested after a 'lost weekend.' Maybe I will get my chores done next weekend...

bucket list - the beginning

I'm a little over a month away from my 50th birthday. I haven't found my red hat yet. Well...I haven't really been looking, but it's on my list of things to do.

Speaking of lists, I guess it's time for me to start working on my bucket list. You won't find anything like bungee jumping or sky diving on my list - I'm just not that kind of gal - kind of a big chicken, as a  matter of fact. However, there are a lot of things that I do want to do. So where do I begin?

Much of what I want to do involves travel, so I will start my list with places that I want to go or see. There are so many places across the US that I haven't seen yet. I'm embarrassed to say that we have lived in California for over 11 years and we still haven't been to Yosemite. I think it would be really something to be able to say that I had been in all 50 states. In addition to traveling across the USA I would to see a few more places like...
1. Tuscany
2. Greece
3. England
4. Ireland
5. Spain
6. Virgin Islands

Any of these places that I can travel to by cruise ship - well, that's a bonus!

So there it is  - Part 1 of my bucket list - I have no idea how long the final list will be because it's a work in progress. I reserve the right to make additions and adjustments to this list as I go along. Any suggestions?